Sympathy
Birthday
Thank You
Other
What to write in a sympathy card
We all want to show up for the people we care about when they're enduring a loss. And when we can't be there in person, we send something meaningful, like a handwritten note. But what happens when you sit down to write the card? You want to say something heartfelt, but sometimes the words just don't arrive.
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Don't worry: we've got you covered. Here are a few options for what you can write that will convey how much you care.
Option #1
"I am so sorry for your loss. [Name] was a wonderful person, and I know they loved you so much. I remember [fill in a sweet or funny memory about the person who passed]. I wish I could make your pain disappear. Please know that I'm here for anything you need, whether it's running errands, reliving fun memories, or just being together."
Option #2
"My heart is breaking for you. If you ever want to talk about [Name], I am here to listen. I will always remember the joy that [he/she/they] brought to the world, especially [share your favorite personality characteristic about the person who passed]. Remember that you are never alone, and that I am always just a quick text away."
What to write in a birthday card
A birthday is a moment you want to show up with more than just a text message. But sometimes, it can be hard to think of exactly what to write in a handwritten birthday card, even if you know the person well! Try one of these options to make your birthday greeting stand out from the crowd.
Option #1
"Happy Birthday! This has been quite a year, and I'm always going to remember the time we [insert your favorite memory with this person from the past year]. I can't wait to see what this personal new year brings you. Know that you deserve every great thing headed your way, and I'm on board for every new adventure."
Option #2
"Happy Birthday! I hope you know this every day, but today is a great time to say it: I'm so grateful to have you in my life. You are [insert your top 3 favorite characteristics about this person] and any room is always more fun with you in it. Take some time today to relax and take care of yourself, you deserve it!"
What to write in a thank you card
A thank you card is a moment to let someone know how their actions have impacted you, however big or small. Here are a few ideas about how to convey your gratitude, if the words don't come freely when you sit down to write to them.
Option #1
"Thank you so much for [describe the person's specific action here]. It means the world to me to have a friend who would take the time to make such a thoughtful gesture. I'm so grateful for your friendship, and I can't wait for all the great times we have to come."
Option #1
"Thank you so much for [describe the gift here]. It's made a real difference to my [sanity/organization/etc] and it always makes me so happy to think of you when I use it. Your kindness is so appreciated! I'm looking forward to [our next big celebration/the next year of our relationship] and am so glad to have you by my side."
